Even though Jonathan and I have known each other and been together for over 13 years, there was one thing we have never experienced together and that was the loss of a family member.
About two and half years ago, grandpa Bruce was given the devastating news that he had cancer and the doctors gave him only 3 months to live. Little did they know, Bruce was a fighter. He would not let this horrible disease bring him down without giving it everything he had.
And with no complaints, he did just that.
As time progressed, the cancer spread and while he still looked good and had a bright smile, the cancer was taking a toll on him.
On May 10th we received the call that he wasn't doing well and we should come down that night to say our final goodbyes. It was a hard and difficult night and in the morning, when we heard he was still hanging on, Jonathan and I went down to spend the entire day by his side. Even though he was heavily medicated and in and out nearly the entire day, we read to him, sang to him, played music for him and just sat by his side. We even found his pocket prayer book and read it to him.
It was such a peaceful and comforting day, one I will never forget.
After other family members arrived, Jonathan and I left to head home to pick up the girls. It wasn't even an hour later that we got the call he had passed. He was finally pain free and in heaven with Jesus.
This last Monday, we had his memorial service down at the Miramar National Cemetery and celebration of life at Aunt Sue's house. The service was very special, with the gun salute and flag presentation. One of my favorite parts was when one of the Navy officers presented 3 coins to Grandma Shirley - representing Honor, Courage and Commitment. Three things Grandpa Bruce exuded.
Grandpa Bruce - while you're no longer with us, you'll be in our hearts forever. As your granddaughter in-law, I'm forever grateful for you. For being a man of loyalty, honor, love, kindness and faithfulness. I have no doubt the Erickson men learned these things from you. You are missed, but we know you are in a better place and we will see you again one day.
You Are Loved <3
Rest in Peace Grandpa
xo
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